For Women Survivors of Incest
March 22-24 (Starts Friday evening, ends mid-day Sunday)
Co-Facilitated by Tere Carranza, Marisa Taborga Byrne and Katie Spataro
Within the context of growing awareness and action in our social world around sexual trauma, this is a time for survivors to unite and together undo the effects of trauma´s impact on the body, mind and spirit.
Along the path of healing/wholing lies an unraveling of the pervasiveness of silence and shame, and the need for sacred spaces for connecting with others, grieving, and being held and witnessed within community. This heart-centered retreat will be held by the nurturing grounds of Sacred Groves as we believe in the healing that happens with connection to the land as well as with others.
The intention of this retreat is to create a safe space for honoring and expressing fullness in the context of a small group of incest survivors. The retreat will include a variety of modalities to explore how these childhood experiences are being held in the body with opportunities for release, clearing and healing through talking circles, movement, visualization, singing, a grief ritual, and quiet integration time. Participants will have the opportunity to be honored and witnessed in their individual experience while being held within the container of the group.
*This retreat is for those who have experienced childhood incest who have been enculturated as women (including but not limited to cisgender women, trans women and nonbinary people assigned female). This retreat is intended for those who have already begun their healing journey and are seeking more support by working with others within a sacred circle.
Fees: The cost for the retreat is $500, which includes lodging for 2 nights at Sacred Groves, meals on Saturday and Sunday and the retreat itself. We are committed to making this retreat accessible to those who feel called. We are offering a limited number of “pay-what-you-can” scholarships. If interested, please inquire.
Pay-it-forward: If you would like to contribute to our scholarship fund to make this retreat accessible for low-income women—THANK YOU! Please make your contribution here:
Facilitators: For this retreat, to ensure all participants are well held Tere is partnering with Katie Spataro of Sacred Womb Services, and Marisa Taborga Byrne.
This retreat is limited those who have experienced childhood incest and will be capped at 10 max. Because of the sensitive nature of this topic, we are asking those interested to email Tere (firstname.lastname@example.org) your responses to the following questions:
1. What do you hope to receive from this week-end?
2. What therapeutic/healing modalities have you already engaged for healing your childhood experiences?
3. What are the support systems you currently have in place?
4. What draws you to doing this healing work in a group? Have you participated in other group healing/emotional/spiritual experiences?
5. Is there anything else that would be important for us to know about you?
Once we have received and reviewed your email, we will let you know if you seem to be a good fit for this retreat. Once confirmed, please pay $100 deposit to hold your place by sending a check to Sacred Groves 9255 Holly Farm Lane, Bainbridge Island, WA 98110 or by paying on-line using the following button:
Hello dear courageous survivors,
With abundant gratitude and deep humility, I honor you for your interest in this healing retreat. My name is Marisa and I am a survivor of incest. My soul’s work is healing my own ancestral karma and contributing to the global healing of sexual trauma.Walking this path for over 20 years now, I found grief and isolation to be a distinct dimension of my personal healing work, huge and multi-layered. For years I searched for a spiritual healing specific to sexual trauma and found nothing. After a three day solo fast in nature September 2017, the desire congealed to be in a grief ceremony with fellow survivors. A month later, I put out a call to women I knew who were ceremonialists and familiar with grief rituals, seeking to co-create a container for a survivor specific grief ceremony. Overwhelming yeses came through, and by dedication from Therese, Tere and Katie, the possibility of this ritual was born. We met in the listening, prayer, imagining and creating of a container for transformative healing and release. They encouraged me to explore my needs and wants, and this exploration informed the specifics and activities. It was been a joyful and grueling journey. After the first retreat focused on grief in 2018, Katie, Therese and Tere, as well as the participants found overwhelming results in the healing journeys.
And so, we now offer another retreat, this time focused on healing, with grief being an aspect of this offering. If it is your time to unburden yourself of grief, of isolation, we welcome you. And, if I can be of service, please reach out and I will be happy to connect.
Ever forward on the path of liberation,
Tere Carranza After participating in and apprenticing for years in every event offered at Sacred Groves, Tere has now co-facilitated Grief Retreats and Womens Circles for over 10 years. She considers it a privilege to help people navigate their way through pain, grief and trauma. She brings her generous heart, grounding presence and infectious joy with her wherever she goes.
Katie Spataro is a full spectrum doula, holistic pelvic care™ provider, certified sexological bodyworker and somatic sex educator. Her practice utilizes ritual, touch, breath and movement to tap into the wisdom of the body to support personal and collective healing. Katie specializes in working with women/womxn including cis and trans folks and people outside the gender binary. Katie brings skilled somatic practice to exploring consent, boundaries and communication in intimate relationships, mapping the anatomy of arousal, re-orienting to pleasure post-surgery/postpartum/post menopause, and supporting the healing journey around sexual trauma. She works with individuals, couples/relationships and facilitates groups around sexual and reproductive health and wellness. More info at: www.sacredwombservices.com
Marisa (Sasa) Taborga Byrne, she/her, born and raised in California, comes from an Irish, German, Bolivian and Spanish lineage. She is a Nature Connection Guide, Rites of Passage Facilitator and Holistic Sexual Health Educator. Marisa began to hold ceremonial rites of passage for adolescents and adults in 2012. As a recipient of the powerful healing attributes of nature, she is a strong advocate for soul discovery in the wild. Marisa is an incest survivor, and devotes her time to creating healing opportunities for herself and her community, as well as holding conversations and councils with youth and adults about holistic sexuality, seeing education as a preventative medicine of potential trauma and the key to fully embracing and embodying our wild, natural selves